If your marriage is going through some rough times right now, this review of Save the Marriage could be just what you need. Lee Baucom, who wrote it and has a PhD, is a fairly well-known marriage counselor with more than 20 years of experience. Dr. Baucom's job is to save marriages, and his exact method has saved a huge number of marriages that were on the verge of falling apart.
Many marriage counselors know the obvious steps that couples need to take to fix their relationship. Dr. Baucom goes beyond this and talks about the things that couples should stop doing if they want to keep their marriages together.
Since the program started, his straight-up method has helped hundreds of troubled marriages get back on track. On Dr. Baucom's site, Save the Marriage evaluate, there are some helpful videos that explain what the course is about.
The marriage advice on the site is not only very helpful, but it is also given in a clear, concise, and well-organized way. Dr. Baucom doesn't hold back when he talks about the "dime a dozen" marriage counselors on the internet who aren't trained or professional. He warns against a lot of the available information because, to be honest, it's far shaky and almost never been proven.
Lee H. Baucom, who has a Ph.D., is a member in good standing of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. He says he has a 90% success rate, which is much higher than the business average of 20%. He says that this is because of his unusual but very successful method.
Dr. Baucom admits that when he first started out, he just went along with the party line and taught the "same old, same old" techniques and standards that he had learned from the books and his professors. The ones that have been taught all along, whether or not they have been helpful! Disappointed that he wasn't having any success, he went in a different direction and came up with a unique and unusual way to help people with their marriages. When he did this, he was thrilled to see his success rate go up a lot.
One reason why psychologists don't have a high success rate is that most of them aren't trained in marriage therapy. In a feeble attempt to help couples who come to them with marriage problems, they add this kind of mentoring to their "professional" training later on. Most of the time, they don't work very well because they try to find and fix very personal and complicated marriage problems with "general" methods. Have you ever tried to fit a square peg into a round hole? So, according to Dr. Baucom, this is why achievement rates are so low and discouraging.
In the next part of this Save the Marriage review, we will list Dr. Baucom's "Four Myths of a Successful Marriage," which he goes into great detail about in his book. These are the myths:
1. Communication is very important. Is this just a myth?
2.There's only one way to make a marriage work (he claims there are as a minimum 8).
3: If the other person isn't trying to save the wedding, you can't. This is one of my favorite things!
4. Time makes everything better (wounds).
"More marriages die from neglect than any other reason," says Dr. Baucom, which is a statement that really makes you think. Not infidelity, no longer abuse, however forget. Believe it or not, divorce often takes one partner by surprise. They had no idea it was coming...
In a survey that asked people to rank their priorities, people's marriages usually ranked in the top three or four. But the sad truth is that not enough people put in the time and effort they need to in order to have a successful marriage. So, the forgetting is seen as carelessness, and the marriage starts to fall apart. If you take away anything from this Save the Marriage review, I hope it's this: you need to be open and honest with yourself, and if you're guilty of neglect, you need to start changing that pattern right away - your marriage depends on it.
If you compare this situation to a job, people often just change jobs to get rid of the hassle instead of putting in the time and effort to fix the problem. Unfortunately, this "quick fix" mentality, along with the fact that most people in modern society don't value marriage for what it is, leads to divorce far too often.
Dr. Baucom says that it is very important to evaluate your marriage and know what stage it is in. Then, based on how bad the breakup is, the best possible treatment is chosen and put into place.
He doesn't say that he can do miracles, but the fact that his work is so successful speaks for itself. On Dr. Baucom's website, you can read about marriages that have changed in amazing ways. They will encourage and motivate you, just as I hope this Save the Marriage assessment has, to roll up your sleeves and start rebuilding your marriage right away.
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Dr. Baucom wraps things up by saying that his program is about more than just your marriage. It's about building the relationship you've always wanted and dreamed of, as well as a happy and fulfilling future with your partner.
I wanted to write this Save the Marriage review because I think it's a good marriage help program that will really help you if you're willing to jump in with both feet and give it your best shot. You SHOULD try to save your marriage.
Everything good!